Sunday 20 September 2009

Does anyone have this problem?

Ok, so you have a boyfriend. Or girlfriend.. They are the most amazing person you know, you love them with everything you have to offer, you'd do anything to make them happy... Yet there is one thing that makes you unhappy, or feel down. Their friends.

You could be the nicest person in the world.. but their friends don't like you. What do you do? Is there anything you can do? I have my boyfriend, and I love him to pieces. I would move with him wherever he went! That's how much I love him. I'd fight for us.. I'd stand up for him.. I'd even take a bullet for him. But no matter what I do, or how I feel about him, there's always his friends in the background. The ones who are the problem.. used to be my friends. Yes, my friends too. In fact, I knew them before I knew my guy.

I don't know whether it's something I've done, something they think I've done, or even if it's something he's told them that they've judged me on! The thing with girls, when it comes to boyfriends.. they don't change their opinions (unless of course something drastic happens like cheating!) if they like their friend's boyfriend, they like them.. However, my boyfriend's friends, have suddenly all turned on me, and decided that, I'm not good enough for him, and they don't like me. Infact, some have evn told me to my face, and made it plain!

:( All I want, is to be happy. I am happy with who I'm with. And I would give anything to make him happy, and give him everything he wants. But at the back of my mind, I know no matter what I do, I will always be judged by them lads...

Is there anything to change their mind? Is there anything I can do? when they were once a friend of mine? Even after going out of my way to help and cheer them up after breakups.. helping them get the girl they wanted.. not taking sides when they've had biig bust ups.. What does it take for guys to just.. Change thier minds?? Help anyone?